Parental hierarchy

1. Willing to spend money for children: If parents only value material sacrifices, they may overlook their children's inner emotional and psychological needs.

2. Willing to spend time for children: Full hearted companionship and dedication from parents (especially mothers). Emotions are satisfied, but as the child grows up, they need more. In addition to emotions, they also need themselves, and new contradictions arise.

3. Willing to learn for their children: Parents have also invested in various parenting studies and explorations of parenting knowledge, and found that either theory is difficult to implement, or following textbook theories cannot solve problems.

4. Willing to change for children: Reflective parents are never perfect! Not afraid of making mistakes, afraid of not knowing, and even more afraid of knowing but not changing! Parents reflect on their experiences, and children also learn.